Manners are priceless.
UK online and offline dating
Manners are priceless.
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Singles Events
Coming soon in South East England. Singles events organized by Old Style Dating.
Book here for our first singles event.
Personal Matchmaking
Personal match making services coming soon. South East area only.
Email us for more information.
Vetted Profiles
We guarantee that every profile will be manually vetted. We have strict standards on profile photos and acceptable language to keep you safe.
Personal Touch
We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.
Traditional Values
We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and loyalty. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.
No One Night Stands
We don’t do one night stands. Our members are looking for meaningful relationships. We want you to feel respected.
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Contact Us
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can you tell me more about Old Style Dating?
A. Sure, just read our About Us page.
Q. What if I join then change my mind?
A. Just email us and we can cancel you.
Q. What if I need help with my profile?
A. Just email us, we are always happy to help.
Q. What if I forget my log in details?
A. Just email us and we will help you.
Q. Will I get a reply to any questions?
A. Absolutely, we aim to reply within 24 hours.
Q. What if a member has been disrespectful?
A. Please inform us ASAP and we will deal with them.
Q. How do you find my match?
A. We don’t, you decide who to date.
Q. Is it recurring payments?
A. We are currently offering FREE membership whilst we build our community.
Q. Will I be tied to a contract?
A. No. You can cancel your membership at anytime.
Q. How many members do you have?
A. We have hundreds (We are still very new) not thousands at the moment, but people are joining regularly.
Q. What if I join and there is nobody suitable in my area?
A. That’s not a problem. We will issue you a full refund if you wish to cancel within 14 days.
Q. Can I see members before I sign up?
A. No sorry, we respect our members privacy.
Q. How do I pay?
A. We are currently offering FREE membership whilst we build our community.
My daughter‘s experiences opened my eyes to the unpleasantness surrounding modern-day dating. How can anyone expect to find Mr or Mrs Right when you‘re judged on how sexy your photo looks and discarded with a swipe without so much as a hello? And when conversations do start, it can quickly become apparent that long-term love is not on everyone‘s agenda. It would seem lewd comments and inappropriate requests have become the norm, rather than the exception.
Our Latest Couple
Penny
After so much heart ache and disappointment on other sites, Old Style Dating came to the rescue. It renewed my faith and confidence. I have my perfect lady in Penny. I am one lucky and happy man indeed. Thank you so much. XXX
Richard
Are you ready to shake things up and actually attract the right partner for you? That partner that you just instantly have that amazing connection with?……….Guess what? We want that for you too.
James and Sarah are both award winning, highly respected and experienced dating/relationship coaches. We are honoured to have them as part of the Old Style Dating team.
They have both helped thousands of men and women find love, build their confidence, and help with self esteem.
James is an author of a highly successful book on dating.
Happy Valentine’s Day
If you’re not in a relationship as we head towards Valentine’s Day, we hope you’re not dwelling on this too much.
For many, this is a day when commercialisation seems to have taken over – as cards, flowers, chocolates and meal deals are flogged mercilessly.
Love at first sight does exist – and here’s the evidence!
You can prove anything with statistics can’t you?
That’s why we thought we’d conduct a quick and simple poll on whether love at first sight existed.
We surveyed 100 people on whether this thunderbolt of emotion or rush of attraction is a real thing.
3 Reasons You Should Always Have A Second Date
Our Relationship Expert Dating Coach says “The best and strongest relationships take work, patience and persistence and so if we require that same ethos to dating and be fully present with each and every person we meet romantically we might be more inclined to give each person a second date where new and exciting things might show up in conversation and connection that didn’t perhaps do so on the first date”.