We are not just any online dating site, we are the only one where integrity matters
We are not just any online dating site, we are the only one where integrity matters
First month £4.99*
Vetted Profiles
We guarantee that every profile will be manually vetted. We have strict standards on profile photos and acceptable language to keep you safe.
Personal Touch
We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.
Traditional Values
We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and loyalty. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.
No Hook-ups
You won’t be ‘hit on’, or asked for a ‘hook-up’. Our dating platform offers a more refined online dating experience where every communication offers the potential of a loving relationship.
Have more questions? Read our FAQ, or contact us.
Contact Us
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can you tell me more about Old Style Dating?
A. Sure, just read our About Us page.
Q. What if I join then change my mind?
A. Just email us and we can cancel you.
Q. What if I need help with my profile?
A. Just email us, we are always happy to help.
Q. What if I forget my log in details?
A. Just email us and we will help you.
Q. Will I get a reply to any questions?
A. Absolutely, we aim to reply within 24 hours.
Q. What if a member has been disrespectful?
A. Please inform us ASAP and we will deal with them.
Q. How do you find my match?
A. We don’t, you decide who to date.
Q. Is it recurring payments?
A. Yes, it’s £4.99 for the first month and £14.99 per month thereafter until you cancel.
Q. Will I be tied to a contract?
A. No. You can cancel your membership at anytime.
Q. How many members do you have?
A. We have hundreds (We are still very new) not thousands at the moment, but people are joining regularly.
Q. What if I join and there is nobody suitable in my area?
A. That’s not a problem. We will issue you a full refund if you wish to cancel within 14 days.
Q. Can I see members before I sign up?
A. No sorry, we respect our members privacy.
Q. Do you just accept PayPal?
A. No you can use a debit or credit card too.
My daughter‘s experiences opened my eyes to the unpleasantness surrounding modern-day dating. How can anyone expect to find Mr or Mrs Right when you‘re judged on how sexy your photo looks and discarded with a swipe without so much as a hello? And when conversations do start, it can quickly become apparent that long-term love is not on everyone‘s agenda. It would seem lewd comments and inappropriate requests have become the norm, rather than the exception.
Our Latest Couple
Penny
After so much heart ache and disappointment on other sites, Old Style Dating came to the rescue. It renewed my faith and confidence. I have my perfect lady in Penny. I am one lucky and happy man indeed. Thank you so much. XXX
Richard
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James and Jo are both award winning ,highly respected and experienced dating/relationship coaches. We are honoured to have them as part of the Old Style Dating team.
They have both helped thousands of men and women find love, build their confidence, and help with self esteem.
They are both authors of highly successful books on dating.
Stylist
Are you looking to discover the colours and style of clothes that suit you so that you look and feel amazing every day?
Photographer
Andrej is a headshot and portrait photographer, specialising in the craft of close-up photography – which, if done well (and he wouldn’t do it any other way), has the most impact on the viewer because we all connect with faces the most.
Psychic Medium
Alison Cassidy has over 22 years’ experience of being a psychic medium. Alison is well known and highly respected in her field, she is also very professional and through her reading, she can focus on what is happening with precise details and accuracy.
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