A new approach to online dating.
With us, respect matters ❤

A new approach to online dating.
With us, respect matters ❤
Have questions?
Read our FAQ, or contact us.
Steps To Find



Vetted Profiles
I personally vet everyone who wants to join. I don’t use a fancy IT system or algorithms , I take an old fashioned, just ‘check properly ‘ approach.
Personal Touch
We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.
Traditional Values
We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and chivalry. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.
No One Night Stands
We don’t do one night stands. Our members are looking for meaningful relationships. We want you to feel respected.
Have more questions? Read our FAQ, or contact us.
Contact Us
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can you tell me more about Old Style Dating?
A. Sure, just read our About Us page.
Q. What if I join then change my mind?
A. Just email us and we can cancel you.
Q. What if I need help with my profile?
A. Just email us, we are always happy to help.
Q. What if I forget my log in details?
A. Just email us and we will help you.
Q. Will I get a reply to any questions?
A. Absolutely, we aim to reply within 24 hours.
Q. What if a member has been disrespectful?
A. Please inform us ASAP and we will deal with them.
Q. How do you find my match?
A. We don’t, you decide who to date.
Q. Is it recurring payments?
A. For a limited time only we are absolutely free for a 6 month membership.
Q. What is a VIP Package?
A. Our VIP Package includes:
- Member of our private Facebook group.
- Receive £99 off our digital services (full costs are £499)
- Our experts will help you write your profile.
- Receive our ‘Guide to Dating’ a booklet full of valuable Dating tips.
- All this for a one off payment of £24.99
- One-year membership
Q. Will I be tied to a contract?
A. No. You can cancel your membership at anytime. And return at any time too.
Q. How many members do you have?
A. We have hundreds (We are still very new) not thousands at the moment, but people are joining regularly.
Q. Can I see members before I sign up?
A. No sorry, we respect our members privacy.
Q. How do I pay?
A. We accept most card payments.


Digital Dating
A personal matchmaking service. ❤️
We offer a digital dating service for singles to meet safely.
All matches are handpicked offline and vetted by our expert Dating Team.
Contact us us for a friendly no obligation chat.
Dennie’s Guide to Online Dating
Online Dating should still be fun, but you still need to be vigilant.
Get Dennie’s Guide to Online Dating to help you navigate your way.
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Are you old school?
What about when it comes to dating?
What does Old Style mean to you?
I’ve passionately promoted this crucial message of my dating Old Style Dating site to convey values of trust, manners and respect.
We are old school and proud of it. That doesn’t mean we are old fashioned. There is a subtle difference.
We totally appreciate equality and diversity.
But when it comes to dating we can’t be doing with the modern way of swiping for the sake of it, false profiles and more hook-ups than you can shake your stick at.
Instead, we love an old style of dating – with manners.
That’s got to be a good thing, right?
We have all heard the horror stories about notorious sites these days.
We work hard to be different.
That’s why I spend hours every day checking that people are genuine.
We do not allow profiles that don’t show a real person.
PS: It’s free to join as we build our community so why not sign up and come and say hello?


To Our Happy Couple
Penny
After so much heart ache and disappointment on other sites, Old Style Dating came to the rescue. It renewed my faith and confidence. I have my perfect lady in Penny. I am one lucky and happy man indeed. Thank you so much. XXX
Richard


Are you ready to shake things up and actually attract the right partner for you? That partner that you just instantly have that amazing connection with?……….Guess what? We want that for you too.
James and Sarah are both award winning, highly respected and experienced dating/relationship coaches. We are honoured to have them as part of the Old Style Dating team.
They have both helped thousands of men and women find love, build their confidence, and help with self esteem.
James is an author of a highly successful book on dating.

Ask Sarah Louise
The Relationship Expert
Sarah Louise Ryan is our resident agony aunt. Simply ask us any dating question. Please note that Sarah Louise does not reply individually. Answers will appear on the Agony Aunt Page.


Dating Terms 2021 (Why OSD doesn’t approve)
At Old Style Dating, we are always amused by all these dating terms as illustrated below.
At OSD, we don’t associate with any of these terms, and that’s why we encourage traditional values such as good manners and honesty.

Online Dating Profiles (A few Don’ts)
Unfortunately not everyone places the same value on honesty when dating, and sometimes such fundamental values don’t align between prospective partners. Maybe your prospective partner thinks that even white lies are harmless?
We don’t.

Single and living through a pandemic
Many singles have struggled during lockdown.
We are humans, and naturally we want to connect. Who doesn’t feel better after a simple hug? Unfortunately, during lockdown, that has not been possible.