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Manners are priceless.

We are a traditional dating company with a modern twist

No swiping or naked photos

All profiles are personally vetted

Helping genuine people to find love ❤

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Reviving chivalry in 2020

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UK Online Dating & Personal Matchmaking
Already a member?

Manners are priceless.

We are a traditional online dating website with a modern twist

No swiping or naked photos

All profiles are personally vetted

Helping genuine people to find love ❤

Verify your identity for FREE with Yoti

Reviving chivalry in 2020

1 Year FREE1 Year FREELimited time only

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Dennie’s Guide to Online Dating

Dennie’s Guide to Online Dating

Online Dating should still be fun, but you still need to be vigilant.
Get Dennie’s Guide to Online Dating to help you navigate your way.

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1 Sign Up

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2 Create Profile

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3 Find Love

No algorithms, you decide who to date!
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Why We Are
WINTER OFFER
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Limited time only

Vetted Profiles

I personally vet everyone who wants to join. I don’t use a fancy IT system or algorithms , I take an old fashioned, just ‘check properly ‘ approach.

Personal Touch

We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.

Traditional Values

We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and loyalty. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.

No One Night Stands

We don’t do one night stands. Our members are looking for meaningful relationships. We want you to feel respected.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Q. Can you tell me more about Old Style Dating?
A. Sure, just read our About Us page.

Q. What if I join then change my mind?
A. Just email us and we can cancel you.

Q. What if I need help with my profile?
A. Just email us, we are always happy to help.

Q. What if I forget my log in details?
A. Just email us and we will help you.

Q. Will I get a reply to any questions?
A. Absolutely, we aim to reply within 24 hours.

Q. What if a member has been disrespectful?
A. Please inform us ASAP and we will deal with them.

Q. How do you find my match?
A. We don’t, you decide who to date.

Q. Is it recurring payments?
A. We are currently offering FREE membership whilst we build our community.

Q. Will I be tied to a contract?
A. No. You can cancel your membership at anytime.

Q. How many members do you have?
A. We have hundreds (We are still very new) not thousands at the moment, but people are joining regularly.

Q. What if I join and there is nobody suitable in my area?
A. That’s not a problem. We will issue you a full refund if you wish to cancel within 14 days.

Q. Can I see members before I sign up?
A. No sorry, we respect our members privacy.

Q. How do I pay?
A. We are currently offering FREE membership whilst we build our community.

Why We Are

Vetted Profiles

I personally vet everyone who wants to join. I don’t use a fancy IT system or algorithms , I take an old fashioned, just ‘check properly ‘ approach.

Personal Touch

We offer the personal touch and you can contact us at any time. Our dating coaches are on hand to support you in finding that special love of your life.

Traditional Values

We are a modern dating platform that insists on traditional values such as respect, good manners and loyalty. Aimed at creating lasting, fulfilling long term relationships.

No One Night Stands

We don’t do one night stands. Our members are looking for meaningful relationships. We want you to feel respected.

I do find this site superior to those others out there. A better class of people as well.
Richard

66 Years

The signing up was really easy. I think it’s great, love the idea.. it’s fab and fingers crossed I’ll find someone lovely.

Kate

28 Years

An Amazing dating website. Just what is needed. A classy, upmarket site where ladies and gentlemen can meet in the old fashioned way. Looking forward to meeting my Mr. Right!

Jane

60 Years

For 2 yrs I’ve been giving online dating a try because it’s difficult to find single women. I like the idea of Dennie’s site and I want to try something different to find a fulfilling relationship.
Simon

31 Years

Very impressed to see that this site is monitored by a human and not a computer bot or algarithymn.  Dennie obviously cares and a monthly newsletter actually written by her shows that she cares this is about us and not funding a global empire.

Karen

50 Years

I think the problem with the other sites is you tend to find people who are just after a bit of fun, but for me I’m at the place in my life where I am ready to settle down, and start a family. I believe Old Style Dating is where I’m going to find this.

Steven

30 Years

Why Daniel likes Old Style Dating
DENNIE – FOUNDER
Have you been horrified by the shallow and insincere approach taken by most modern online dating sites? Have the messages you‘ve received shocked you, and left you wondering where all the genuine men and women are, who are serious about finding love?

My daughter‘s experiences opened my eyes to the unpleasantness surrounding modern-day dating. How can anyone expect to find Mr or Mrs Right when you‘re judged on how sexy your photo looks and discarded with a swipe without so much as a hello? And when conversations do start, it can quickly become apparent that long-term love is not on everyone‘s agenda. It would seem lewd comments and inappropriate requests have become the norm, rather than the exception.

Dennie Smith
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I do find this site superior to those others out there. A better class of people as well.
Richard

66 Years

The signing up was really easy. I think it’s great, love the idea.. it’s fab and fingers crossed I’ll find someone lovely.

Kate

28 Years

An Amazing dating website. Just what is needed. A classy, upmarket site where ladies and gentlemen can meet in the old fashioned way. Looking forward to meeting my Mr. Right!

Jane

60 Years

For 2 yrs I’ve been giving online dating a try because it’s difficult to find single women. I like the idea of Dennie’s site and I want to try something different to find a fulfilling relationship.
Simon

31 Years

Very impressed to see that this site is monitored by a human and not a computer bot or algarithymn.  Dennie obviously cares and a monthly newsletter actually written by her shows that she cares this is about us and not funding a global empire.

Karen

50 Years

I think the problem with the other sites is you tend to find people who are just after a bit of fun, but for me I’m at the place in my life where I am ready to settle down, and start a family. I believe Old Style Dating is where I’m going to find this.

Steven

30 Years

Why Daniel likes Old Style Dating

Our Latest Couple

I really feel I have fallen on my feet finding Richard. In fact I keep having to pinch myself is it really happening. I think the criteria required by Old Style Dating really made the search easy.
Penny

After so much heart ache and disappointment on other sites, Old Style Dating came to the rescue. It renewed my faith and confidence. I have my perfect lady in Penny. I am one lucky and happy man indeed. Thank you so much. XXX
Richard

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FOR DATING & RELATIONSHIPS

Are you ready to shake things up and actually attract the right partner for you? That partner that you just instantly have that amazing connection with?……….Guess what? We want that for you too.

James and Sarah are both award winning, highly respected and experienced dating/relationship coaches. We are honoured to have them as part of the Old Style Dating team.

They have both helped thousands of men and women find love, build their confidence, and help with self esteem.

James is an author of a highly successful book on dating.

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The Relationship Expert

Sarah Louise Ryan is our resident agony aunt. Simply ask us any dating question. Please note that Sarah Louise does not reply individually. Answers will appear on the Agony Aunt Page.

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Traditionally, we know dating as two singles meeting in person having matched with each other on a dating site, app, at an event or perhaps meeting through friends.

Here are just 3 of many things that spring to mind when we think of post-pandemic dating.

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